5 Common Mistakes Young Families Make When Buying a Home (and How to Avoid Them)
Buying your first home as a family is exciting—but it’s also full of potential pitfalls. Let’s skip the hassle and jump right into the five most common mistakes families make—and how you can sidestep them.
1. Skipping Mortgage Pre-Approval — And Looking Before Budgeting
It’s fun to browse houses, but starting without knowing your buying power hurts more than it helps. Without mortgage pre-approval, you may:
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Fall in love with a home outside your budget
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Show up to negotiations looking less credible
Getting pre-approved first gives you a realistic budget, strengthens your offer, and demonstrates to sellers that you're serious.
2. Ignoring Total Homeownership Costs
A home isn’t just a mortgage payment. There are hidden expenses that catch many families off-guard:
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Closing costs (2–5% of the home price)
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Earnest money deposits
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Inspection fees
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Repairs—from minor fixes to major updates
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HOA fees, utilities, property taxes… the list goes on
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Tip:** Build an emergency fund before you buy so you don’t get stuck covering unexpected expenses.
3. Not Shopping Around for Lenders
Taking the first mortgage offer you get? Big mistake.
Rates and loan terms vary between lenders—even a slight rate difference can save thousands over a 30-year mortgage.
Pro tip: Get quotes from at least three lenders and compare terms, not just rate.
4. Letting Emotions Drive Decisions
It’s easy to get starry-eyed about your future home—but prioritize data over feelings:
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Overpaying because you’re emotionally drawn? Too common.
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Waiting for the “perfect” home means you might miss out on good options.
Smart move: Set clear deal-breakers and be willing to compromise where you can.
5. Overlooking Neighborhood Research & Resale Potential
You're not just buying a home—you’re investing in a community and your long-term future.
Skip checking school ratings, local safety, resale trends, and daily conveniences? That’s a recipe for regret.
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Do this instead:** Drive the neighborhood at different times of day, check nearby schools, commute times, and resale metrics.
Wrap-Up: How to Avoid These Pain Points
| Mistake | Smart Move |
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| No pre-approval | Start with mortgage pre-approval |
| Ignoring costs | Plan for closing, repairs, and emergencies |
| One lender | Shop multiple lenders |
| Emotional buying | Use a shortlist of must-haves |
| Skipping research | Investigate neighborhood and resale value |
Ready to Buy Smarter?
If you're a dual-income family, downsizing—or just starting the journey—I can help you navigate this. Let’s make sure your home search is informed, strategic, and stress-free.
📞 Call Scott Selleck at 201‑970‑3960
📧 Email: [email protected]
📅 Schedule your personal consultation: tidycal.com/slselleck
You deserve every advantage when buying your home—The Selleck Group is here to deliver.
